Thursday, December 28, 2006

怀念梅艳芳

我剪接的一个娱乐节目,今天里面全是梅艳芳的资料和片段。才发现,梅艳芳都离世了3年。3年前的12月30日,凌晨2点50分,就离开这个世界...





她的歌,我说不出多少首歌名,但是那些片段,我都发现,原来部分的歌我都听过。她的歌声独特,我却没有留意到小时部分听到的歌都是她唱的!可能很多年轻人听到她的经典歌,会觉得 'so lame!',年轻人喜欢旧时歌手很老土。但是她的精神是我们只得作为榜样的。她在得到癌症后,依然开了8场演唱会,将自己的一生奉
献给舞台...到了癌症末期,痛苦,还是坚持活到最后一口气...以下是她在演唱会里说的几句话....





“我曾經好失落,亦都好憔悴,我問我自己,我係未繼續要繼續甘樣過活。我D朋友如果知道既話,他地將係未會好心痛。就算離世左既幾位,我lam他地都唔想見到我會甘樣。所以,我話俾自己聽,我,要活在當下。”





“呢8場入邊,我其實我想證明一樣野,出邊係我未做呢個演唱會之前,好多風風雨雨,話梅艷芳有咩野有咩野有咩野,究竟做唔做到呢個演唱會,我今日證明左俾自己睇,只要有信心既話,無-難-事。”





“無論聽日係惦,我會做好今日,積極地面對我以後的人生。”





“呢場係一場好長既,可能係硬戰,但係我覺得每個人都需要有呢個信心,有呢個念頭,我地唔可以lap亂話俾人地聽,我地放棄,唔要呢個人生,因為呢個係上天賜給我地,既然我地決定左我地既人生既話,我地將唔會改變,我繼續會努力,兼奮鬥。”





很多人都拿《胭脂扣》里,饰演十二少(陈振邦)的张国荣对饰演红牌妓女如花的梅艳芳说的一句话:“如夢如幻月,若即若離花”来怀念离世的梅艳芳。几年以后,还会有多少人会记得梅艳芳唱过的歌,演过的戏,做过的事呢?由或者还会记得这个艺人呢?正如该节目主持人所说的,生命依然要繼續,怀念依然要存.........

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

我与剧坊的心路历程

forwarded from 心向太阳剧坊blog





2003年,国明与天洋招募《梦天堂》舞台剧工作人员,我与舍友浩浩荡荡加入了。 过程忙但却有意义,充实。由于不熟悉剧坊运作,期间我都很直接表露不满,还向制作人大喊大叫。但是这初体验,让我对舞台剧有多一些些的认识。至少让我知道舞台剧并不是我之前所认识,那所谓的‘深奥艺术品’。





《椅子。人》我并没有太多的参与感,因为看到很多陌生的面孔,可以说是在后期进剧场的时候我才参与。当时还蛮怀念从前与舍友们每晚一起走到宿舍楼下排戏的日子,刹那间此时此刻只能变成专属《梦天堂》的回忆...





我在《梦天堂》发生电源短路意外大难不死后,我依稀记得剧坊‘老将’秋风姐说过一些话,当时的我还以为我以后就负责灯光的,但是在《爱之路》一跳就跳到去助理制作人的岗位。很多时候都要跟着制作人去面对社会人士,政府部门,赞助商媒体等。所谓人情冷暖,个中滋味只有经历过才能体会...短短的几个月,可以确确实实地感受到舞台剧的路是多么的不易走呐!





我知道最近剧坊面临逼迁的问题,也很令我痛心,毕竟要找到好像Ue3那样‘平,靓,正’的落脚地真的不容易。由于我生活加上环境的不便,几乎没有参与剧坊的活动。我终于明白为什么剧坊的大部分的会员好像掉落在流水上的叶子一样...因为我也是其中一片吧!





虽然剧坊面临重重难关,但是我深信以后的心向太阳剧坊是发光发热的!我都这么深信着... 衷心盼望剧坊可以找到更多能抵抗流水的沉石... ~洁如~

忆学院生活~~1

前几天朋友才说,她刚进学院的时候,看到我做一份group assignment, 很用心,即使其他组员没有什么参与,我都坚持熬夜把assignment做出来,但是我对这件事真的没有印象...但是我记得我被那一个subject的讲师看好...



而且我组做的两次assignment都被称赞...那时我也以为自己会做出色的记者的...但是光辉的日子不长久,我承认我刚进学院的时候我有付出努力,但是三分钟热度,才过了一个学期,就开始懒下来了。我把学院的时候考试当普通日子。考前几小时才跟同学借note来看。拿着note赖在床上睡着了。



那时我看舍友都很bik cik我吧!哈哈哈!自己又不做notes,到最后一分钟才跟他们借来看,害到他们不能读多两下。进到考场,作弊的味道超重。而我就lan清高没有同流合污,只靠自己读了一点点的东西,加上一点点的小聪明+幸运来考试。一个学期考10科左右,对我来说,管他!failed掉一些不用retest 的科。可以毕到业就好了。



我这样的读书和考试态度,在spm前就开始了吧...还记得biology什么都没有读,考的前一晚还拿着biology书睡觉...大家在紧张到谁不着的时候,我竟然可以什么都没读过,还睡得下!所以spm成绩出炉,朋友问起,都不相信我竟然只拿了一个A而已!



话说回头,虽然学院有点烂,但是有些讲师还不错的...但是得过且过的态度让自己很多东西都不懂,不知道,来到社会工作只有混饭吃罗...



还在读着书的你们,千万不要步我的后尘呐!

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Mr. J & Miss I Wedding Day

Mr. Jacky ask Shan Yuan to shoot for his wedding. So i follow Shan Yuan and Jin Hui go to Jacky's hometown,Seremban 5 o'clock in the morning. This is the 1st time i follow almost the wedding schedule. We reach there about 7am and found out he still sleeping.... =.=''' ask us reach before 7am pula...



We saw a pretty car in the house. And SHan Yuan say that is Fair Lady. I dont much about cars, but i know it expensive and it seems dream car of many guy.



teddy bear + fair lady = bride's car


The whole morning i in blur blur status, and in the bride house, i miss the 玩新郎 part. Cause too many people inside, so i sit outside the house, just slightly know whats goin on inside. @.@



接新娘成功!



Guess where to have wedding dinner? Palace of Golden House! gosh....This is the 1st time i went to this high class place..Before the dinner start, i help to be lighting for a while. This wedding dinner a bit special, here no ‘签到表’, but use 即影即有相机 to snap every guess who attend the dinner and hang on the photo on a tree branch provided. Jacky's cousin nonstop walking around us and snap our photo. Especially mine!When i holding the light!Geramnya! Even this cousin's brother also use the 即影即有相机 to snap my stupid face! And hang on the tree! geramnya! Jin Hui not allow me to take the photo, and even put to higher branch! =.=



Me and Jacky Shan Yuan and Jin Hui



新人入席 (wedding march i think) and 第一道菜肴上菜 is the important part of the wedding dinner. That time i should help to take care of the lighting girl and the camera man, but me myself pokkai pula! =.=''' shamed of myself! Because of that, Shan Yuan cant shoot the whole part of the 第一道菜肴上菜. 真的是‘食野唔做野,做野就打烂野’,‘仆街王,越帮越忙’!



colleagues



Since i drink red wine, and since the red wine is healthy, so that night is my 2nd time to drink red wine. After 1 glass of red wine, i felt my ears and face hot. I ask chooi ping that sat beside me, she shocked when she saw my face! Really like 关公! gosh....It happen again! Then Alice and her boyfriend came, and ask all of us drink 1 glass in 1 shot. I have no time and chance to reject. after the 2nd glass of redwine, i felt a bit dizzy. Shit! Then they all found out my chest and back also red!



looks drunk d me


Caren and me



Jin Hui and me


搞笑的Jin Hui and me



醉醉地0既花姐加入陣容


Alice and Chooi Ping with looks 醉 d me



@.@ They all said me 'u drunk!' and i nonstop deny....'我無醉!我好清醒!' Even Jacky also told people around me '睇住她' =.=''' 我真系清醒嘎!点解無人信我?So the rest of the shooting, Jin Hui the one who hold the light, and, me? just eat and and eat...and nonstop say 我沒醉...無鬼用!



一對新人with us. watch carefully! my skin with other was different from others!



After the wedding dinner end, and guests were home, and i start stop dizzy and not that hot n red. I plan to get back my stupid photo that hang on the tree, but...IT GONE!!! A few days later when Jacky back from holiday, he told me that his cousin took the photo! ARGHHH! Fen Cheong! >.< 變態佬!!!



This is the 1st time i follow almost the wedding schedule. I found out wedding is really a damn tiring 'activity'! and bride and bridegroom have to smile all the day till night! And the preparation quite tiring too...! 所以,唔乜事都唔好立亂結婚或者離婚丫!

Friday, December 01, 2006

1st December -- World Aids Day

一年前的今天,我第一次被抢手机,我第一天在心向太阳剧坊上班...但是12月1号是更有的意义的日子--世界爱滋病日。





因为《爱之路》舞台剧,我了解到爱滋病。因为《爱之路》舞台剧,我接触到爱滋病带菌者。也因为《爱之路》舞台剧,我看到大马人对爱滋病知识的严重缺乏,对爱滋病的严重错误的观念,对爱滋病这三个字的排斥,还有对爱滋病带菌者和患者的歧视。





我感到很痛心。对社会人士的无知感到失望。往往就是这些无知害死人。就是这些无知让更多人感染爱滋病。在资讯网络发达的社会,年轻人也不了解爱滋病这个课题。可悲的是,去年共有280万人死于爱滋病。可能有人会想:全世界有酱多人,死酱多人不出奇呀!也就是说每分钟就有5.3个人死于爱滋病。是死于爱滋病!一个多么惊人的数字!但是又有多少人去关注这个数目?这个课题?





认识吉隆坡爱滋支援服务社现任主席,也是某收容中心的创办人。就如《爱之路》里的一句对白:‘爱滋路并不好走’。从他身上可以感受到这些年来的从事这个工作的艰辛。但是他犹如一支蜡烛,把希望,把祝福带给更多的人。他,是爱滋病带菌者。

so what?



爱滋病并不可怕,不了解才是真正的可怕。每個人都有一条人生道路,不管他走的是不幸的“愛滋路”或是幸福的愛之路,让我們一起用爱滋养每一個生命。





STOP AIDS. KEEP THE PROMISE.





related infro:

http://www.nanyang.com/index.php?ch=7&pg=10&ac=673709

http://www.unaids.org/en/



Support World AIDS Day



Support World AIDS Day

祝伟城同学早日康复

那天在中国伟城同学少有地msn我,说他车祸了,我还以为是小事,毕竟他还可以msn告诉我嘛!之后说要去医院,就这样放away了...还来不及问他详情的说...



同一天,同是到中国留学的莉洁同学就告诉我,伟成在医院要施手术,帮他祷告。详情她也不是很清楚。她也是听学姐说的。



晚上跟同学们和IF喝茶的时候,IF都很震惊。当然,没有人知道这件事。老豆家权就立刻打长途电话到伟城的宿舍...但是他不在...伟城同学的情况还是个谜.....



第二天才从莉洁同学了解到一些情况。是伟城同学脚车与车的车祸。伟城同学的左手骨折,当了手术方了铁片进去,一年还要取出来。很严重耶! 真佩服他车祸后还可以有闲情回宿舍msn我!



本来是星期六出院,但是却伟城同学嫌闷,今天就出院了。盼望他早日康复...踏脚车要小心....

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

周杰倫演唱會摔倒

堂堂一个著名当红歌手竟然在演唱会连摔两跤!还要装cool...糗死了!

Monday, November 27, 2006

无聊

好无聊~~~~真的好无聊~~~~

虽然手头上有工作有事还未完成

但总提不起劲来

感觉人生过得没有意义



除了工作

就是漫无目的surf net

就是找一些人家觉得冷门的歌来听

就是让自己更觉得很无聊

这样的心情这样的感觉何时才消失??

Thursday, November 16, 2006

PD trip...October

Jacky the boss planned a trip to Port Dickson. Since I not much $$ use, I wondering should i join? After Shan Yuan gave some advice and encouragement, deal. Moreover I 2 year ++ no go seaside liao..erm..and never go trip with colleague.. I think it will be fun! Looking forward to this trip..But....But....These days so hazy... =.= helpless..



Till the next day we have to fetch a colleague 1st and gathered with other car at Nilai rest stop. Till that time i actually still not that clear who else will go for this trip.. @.@ blur me.. but seems the haze not that serious liao! hehe... ^^



me....

When all reach at Nilai rest stop, i found out i just know 5 out of 10! sei foh lor... more blur! @.@ Aiya...Don't care lar! "see 1 step walk 1 step lar"..After we reach Seremban, hometown of Jacky, he recommend us to us beef noodles "ngau lam min" at Pasar besar Seremban and nonstop mumbered say tasty. o.O yao mou ar? But after we eat, it really tasty! syok! The beef doesnt as smelly as we usually eat! Wow! shuang! Cause i ate junk food in the car before, i just order small bowl...arghh!!so regret!



After we reach PD, thought can terus check in and play sand castle (yup! no doubt, is sand castle), but need to see see 1 of the colleague's friend's house..Then just decide wana rent room at other resort 1st..uh...gosh...the lift soooooo slow...slower than the turtle...but then when we reach the house, my colleague cant open the door! And the condo seems so less resident.............Plus not at seaside............................ so most of us suggest rent a unit at resort lu....



Ok. Reach a resort call Angkasa Resort...erm...Damn nice! and not expensive! wuu....thought can go beach d..but they all say so hot n sunny, wait till sunset wor... T.T



one of the room....




me 'dai ji ying' on the bed! hahaha!




what u couple looking at??




nice scene huh? dont get cheat! when u reach the beach u will found out how dirty the sea!!




majung king and majung queen!




When neck become long sunset just reach...hehehe! so long not go beach...feel so excited! When reach there..... =.= gosh....damn dirty! so just plan to play sand at seaside d..but...but....Jacky, Shan Yuan, Jin Hui and Caren pakat throw sand on me....and drag me to the sea....and deep till neck! T.T scared me! Black heart d them still augh at me! haiz... Shan Yuan want to teach me not to scared water d...but at last pun failed....Cause i really to scared of deep water..maybe 'yum ying' lor...



At night, we go eat seafood..wow! so long din see sooo much seafood infront me! I eat till dirty my clothes, like little kidz eating n dirty their clothes...so embrasasing! but is cheap lor...13 people eat just cost RM270...After back to resort, they start be evil..games with alchohol! They are geng!Thats the 2nd time i see people get drunk...!



when they are playing games with alchohol and poker.....




I was watching behind them....




the next day 'mi mi mo mo' the whole morning, then terus check out. So fast... =( and go to Seremban eat Hakka Mee. Gues what? we are the 1st guess! hehe....I'm as a Hakka but thats the 1st time i ate Hakka Mee. Taste good! thumbs up! And we heard Jacky said, thats the famous Hakka Mee restaurant. 吃完就好好上路罗...



the hakka mee shop...yum yum!




On the way back, we can feel the haze back again! Whole journey the highway is so blur! Like we at genting... haze..haiz...But thanks god when we at PD air is clear d. At Least we can see the sea *wink* Thats all for the PD trip....chiaoz..

Monday, November 13, 2006

現代人與我

現代人追求現代,

好多身外物物品求新求先進求in求型,

系因為俾周圍概人,事,物,環境,社會,花花世界影響



對於比較偏向求實際概我

系某些程度上我會覺得系奢侈

系我跟唔上現代人概步伐同思想?

定系現代人過於現代?

吸煙

當隔離檯吸煙,可以選擇轉檯或者換地方.

當朋友吸煙,可以唔可以選擇唔同佢出黎?

講佢, 好似覺得自私,唔俾佢吸.

唔講佢,自己喉嚨又唔舒服,大家同佢概健康受影響.


最後


選擇講佢,得到概系令我自己傷心的話...

瘋狂概virus season

我唔知近排系病毒盛旺季節, 佢地响我唔留神概時候光明正大潛入黎. 我根本唔知响邊度'傳染'返

黎.雖然有AVG, 但系於事無補. 0岩0岩就遇著剛剛, Jacky結婚,連續兩個禮拜請假. 開始就佢忙我

又趕工,之後就佢請假, 個段時期唯有麻煩Shan Yuan搵下software洗D virus囉...



起初AVG淨系detect到一只,之後好似越scan越多,佢地專門攻擊exe file,搞到我公事上概software

幾乎全部lai晒野. Shan Yuan又要搵D software出黎repair, 最離普D都仲有! 我起初lai野之後就

即刻backup D野囉external hardisk度,點知Shan Yuan攞去佢電腦scan, 入邊有101個file

infected! 梁山泊101條好汗咩!



Shan Yuan就千吩咐萬吩咐話唔好上網,一切upload同download由佢地代勞, 之後再放落share

folder, 我正開網絡攞. 就連同事們要print野都要0益一0益我開網絡....鬼叫我用緊架電腦系

share folder同連接printer咩...我一個人lai野, 全部人跟住我受罪...好彩就無傳染到俾佢

地...



坐隔離概caren亦同我同一日lai野, 但系佢就落得兩袖清風,話format就format, 不知幾瀟灑! 我

就惦都要等Jacky返黎喇...有virus就Scan, attack software就repair...



最後的最後,神通廣大概Jacky竟然無format到電腦, 就搞惦晒D virus. CTO果然系CTO!



前前後後都要三個星期囉...同時期亦有其他朋友仔响今次概virus season中招...有人話系anti

virus公司放出黎概, 等平民百姓中招, 之後賣佢地概software, 從中就轉一筆. 唉...以家D人,

為左錢, 乜都做得出.....

Friday, November 10, 2006

死變態佬事件

個日放工,發覺掛响曬衫處少左我概bra同底褲. 望真D,見到自己概bra離門口不遠處. 再向後望,睇到兩個衫架响樓梯度. 唔洗估,一定系死變態佬偷左. 淨系想像,就覺得好核凸.好變態. 我唔明掂解D人會有D甘變態概癖好. 有點兒唔死心,叫shan yuan陪我上多一樓,睇下會唔會留响樓梯度.最上就系閣樓,我以家先知呢度有閣樓. 個度陰森得黎,系吸毒,捉人去強姦概好去處. 原來附近我屋企系有一個甘危險概地方!


閣樓概探索空手而歸. 我底褲下落不明,仲要俾shan yuan笑我 "如何面對~無底褲著的日子~~". 雖然第二日去左security pondok投訴, 但系我完全想像唔到security概condo都有死變態佬! 除左覺得齋坐概security無麼用之外, 覺得社會越來越變態! 我感覺到人身安全受威脅,個閣樓更加令我心寒.



p/s: T.T 我概底褲.....

A 'lun zun' thing I did

Morning i usually 賴床, 唔到最後一分鐘都唔爬起身. 終於lai野! I rush to go work and I lock my room key inside my room! damn shit! I dun even have spare key! Itz late, and my housemate waiting me, i straight go work n try think ways to slove during i work. I go ask locksmith, lowest spences need RM40! So expensive! 好賺過搶野!攞一筆錢黎開鎖,覺得点兒唔舍得羅...I remember previous colleague unlock boss's door with phone card. I msn ask him the way and decide to try unlock by myself.



From 7pm till 10pm, we use fork, many phone card (must Maxis relaod card, cause Digi's too soft), similar door key and even lisence card, real reward card. Jin Hui and Shan Yuan and me take turn to unlock whenever one of us feel tired. Dont ask me how to unlock with those thing, hardly explain...I phone my dad and he sugeest me to knock with hammer, it not really works and we afraid we disturbing other residents. 經多時概努力,D card果然有效, 開到D縫, 不過惦努力都系得個只縫.



About 9pm, Shan Yuan suggest me to find Sam to unlock, since he got experience on it. I doubt, cause he stay quite a distance from us. But we really have no choice, i have to do so. When the time Shan Yuan go fetch Sam, another housemate, Li Ying came back. She join the 'unlock team' and try to help us with similar door key. When we almost give up, Li Ying unlock successful!! Yeah! Jin Hui喇喇林打電話俾Shan Yuan同他講唔洗載Sam過來. 惦知原來佢地已經到左樓下car park左. Haiz...要Sam白走一趟真系唔好意思...我欠佢一餐...



喇喇林執兩件衫,就要落馬六甲,先落Setapak飲個茶仔, 載埋Sam同佢女友返屋企,我地差唔多半夜十二點半正啟程. 如果唔系我概唔小心, 就無洗要Sam山長水遠黎Damansara,就唔洗要Jin Hui Shan Yuan甘遲先落馬六甲...多謝大家概拔刀相助!我會記得概!尤其系Jin Hui and Shan Yuan.... 呢個教訓我會記住概,見過鬼仲唔怕黑咩? 以後房門我唔會鎖,但系床我照賴.... :p

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

現代人=豬??

forwarded from oscar blog.....




第一式:

人=吃飯+睡覺+工作+玩

豬=吃飯+睡覺

人=豬+工作+玩

人-玩=豬+工作

結論:不會玩的人,等於一隻會工作的豬 (咁都得?!)



xxx



第二式:

男人=吃飯+睡覺+賺錢

女人=吃飯+睡覺+花錢

男人+女人=吃飯+睡覺+賺錢+吃飯+睡覺+花錢

因為:賺錢+花錢=0

所以:男人+女人=(吃飯+睡覺)+(吃飯+睡覺)

根據上面第一式:豬=吃飯+睡覺

結論:男人+女人=兩隻豬



這樣一來,通街都是豬......

Monday, October 16, 2006

抵死0既"現代五指山的故事"

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話說孫悟空因大鬧天庭


如來 佛主因不爽他的行為


而把他壓在五指山下





而現代人


看到不爽的人


也會給對方 個五指山


可是因為時間長了


人也變懶了


就伸中指而已


來呈現對他人的不滿與不爽







這副作品的創作人, in_house 要求我一定要寫 : Done by in_house



=.= 我寫了! in_house, 這下你爽了吧?



那天跟in_house在msn聊天, 突然他send了以上的作品 + 以上的一段文字...然後跟他要了他的blog...哈哈!我是唯一一個有他blog的人...哈哈! (自豪)





原來他的blog也有放以上的作品的...在他的blog看到他的心情故事...其實一直都知道他一個人在新加坡讀書很辛苦...在新加坡畢竟人才濟濟, 真的不容易吶! in_house!加油啊!

Friday, October 06, 2006

偏激?? 極端?? 還是...?

前幾天跟我的表哥談到他的朋友的女朋友不想住紅燈區, 我想可能因為不想男友接近那些地方,而真的去召妓吧...一個爭議性的話題就此產生...間中一方還沒'發表'完另一方就急著'發表'...按不住自己的觀點...是我表哥偏激?還是我極端??



Glisten Lee:咳...女人的脑容量就是不行,假使他的男友真的想去寻欢作乐,即使搬都天涯海角,他一样会去

Glisten Lee:像我这种用大脑思考的男人就一定不会去了

Glisten Lee:因为我有很多人生计划要去完成,万一染病,那一生就完了

Glisten Lee:还有什么雄心万志可言

Glisten Lee:雄心壮志

Glisten Lee:而且一个爱家的男人更不会去那种地方

Glisten Lee:染病了,妻小和年迈的双老 由谁去照顾呢?



謝潔如 says:感覺你在兜個大圈讚自己



Glisten Lee:怎么可以为了一时之快毁了一切

Glisten Lee:不是啦

Glisten Lee:我乃讽刺一般女人的无知,和成不了大事的特性



謝潔如 says:大男人主義



Glisten Lee:她要是管不着他的男人,即使搬到天南地北,就可以保证她的男人不去?那可是笑话中的笑话

Glisten Lee:恰当大男人主义是正面的



謝潔如 says:成龍都犯過這樣的錯啦!



Glisten Lee:不然你看以往的大男人社会,哪里有那么多的同居,婚强性行为,和离婚

Glisten Lee:成龙不是男人的典范

Glisten Lee:而且它 (他)也根本没资格



謝潔如 says:大男人主義存在並不代表能杜絕同居,婚前性行為和離婚



Glisten Lee:男女平等了之后,女人都失去了女人们原本应有的美德



謝潔如 says:是現代人對感情的看法和對待和觀點開放

謝潔如 says:大男人的男性並不代表不開放



Glisten Lee:你还是不懂,男女平等是一些问题的开端



謝潔如 says:思想開放

謝潔如 says:是問題的主要



Glisten Lee:武则天执政的时候



謝潔如 says:那舊時代的大男人主義,三妻四妾就是(能)杜絕同居,婚前性行為等問題嗎?



Glisten Lee:仕女权致上的年代



謝潔如 says:那還哪來甚麼金屋藏嬌?

謝潔如 says:是思想的問題!



Glisten Lee:那时候也是中国最淫乱的时代



謝潔如 says:是大男人主義的問題



Glisten Lee:女人可以随时休夫



謝潔如 says:大男人主義並不代表不會接受同居和婚前性行為



Glisten Lee:女人可以很随便



謝潔如 says:難道丈夫不就(好)不能休夫嗎?



Glisten Lee:3P 4P 5P 对那时候的女人来说也很正常



謝潔如 says:還要忍氣吞聲整輩子?

謝潔如 says:是男生喜歡玩3p 4p吧?

謝潔如 says:是男生喜歡看色情片居多還是女生居多?

謝潔如 says:是社會思想開放的問題

謝潔如 says:無關大男人主義



Glisten Lee:那为什么男人当皇帝的时候女人不能随便和4,5 个男人搞在一起呢



謝潔如 says:你還是去進islam啦

謝潔如 says:你是那一夥的人



Glisten Lee:经过一项调查,游览色情网站的女人比男人高出很多

Glisten Lee:而且调查也显示平均女人一天里会用两小时想性事



謝潔如 says:女人出街只能黑布包頭包身..容忍丈夫三妻四妾



Glisten Lee:而男人平均只有一小时

Glisten Lee:不是这个意思

Glisten Lee:只是时代变迁的同时,女人应该保有她们原有的美德和价值观

Glisten Lee:男人一直都没变,只是女人的变化给社会带来了种种的问题

Glisten Lee:所以结论是适当的大男人封建主义和文化是社会建设发展所需要的

Glisten Lee:当大男人注意渐渐被抹杀的同时,也是社会问题一件接一件浮现的时候

Glisten Lee:难道你不没察觉大男人比较在乎家庭价值观吗?



謝潔如 says:是咩?



Glisten Lee:也同时会把儿女管教得比较严厉



謝潔如 says:是咩?



Glisten Lee:随兴的现代婚姻观念,教出了什么样的下一代,我想你我是有目共睹的



謝潔如 says:為甚麼那些被丈夫虐待卻為了讓孩子有個完整的家庭而忍氣吞聲繼續被虐?

謝潔如 says:如果不是在乎家庭價值觀為甚麼女生還這麼做?



Glisten Lee:那是比较极端的个案

Glisten Lee:我们必须以一个年代社会何一个年代的社会作比较

Glisten Lee:而不是拿个案来推翻事实的根据



謝潔如 says:隨兴的現代婚姻觀念不只是女生組(助)長的. 難道提出離婚的就只是女生?難道是大部分離婚個案是妻子紅杏出牆?



Glisten Lee:如果要这么比较的话,离婚,性开放,婚外情就比比皆是了



謝潔如 says:但是是由社會思想開放開始

謝潔如 says:但是全世界的思想開放並不是武則天一個人做出來的

謝潔如 says:還有現在的媒體的影響力



Glisten Lee:如果不是除去了原有的父系社会,然后引进了西方的男女平等,和随兴的价值观,就不会造就了悲剧不断的社会



謝潔如 says:但是從前西方也是沒有男女平等的



Glisten Lee:那从前西方也没有那么多的社会问题啊

Glisten Lee:是他们排除了父系社会



謝潔如 says:以前哪有多少人拿著旗子高喊男女平等?



Glisten Lee:创造了新的价值观



謝潔如 says:是淫亂的思想開放造就了這樣的社會



Glisten Lee:他们的社会问题也就开始了



謝潔如 says:這麼說你是不贊成男女平等啦?



Glisten Lee:平等要有个限度

Glisten Lee:平等到女人失去原有的含蓄,原有的美德那就太不应该了



謝潔如 says:那總結應該是說



Glisten Lee:适当的保有大男人主义,和适而可止地推动男女平等



謝潔如 says:大男人主義過多就會形成女生成為弱勢..妻子遭虐待..丈夫三妻四妾..男女平等過多形成女生失去原有的含蓄..造就感情觀念開放

引至離婚/同居/婚前性行為案件日益增加

謝潔如 says:講來講去到最後都是說社會平衡不到



Glisten Lee:一个由男人来统治和保护的社会不是以向来都很完美吗?而且女人最幸福的事情就是由(有)男人可依靠

Glisten Lee:我们需要成立协会保护弱质的女人和小孩

Glisten Lee:与此同时,我们不能抛开父系社会的原有价值观



謝潔如 says:你是婦女組主席?



Glisten Lee:并且加重刑罚对付那些虐待孩童和妇女的男人

Glisten Lee:保护孩童,女人和老人是男人与生俱来的责任



話題就在我要去吃午餐結束了...你的觀點又在哪裡?



呵呵...感覺最近很喜歡把自己跟親朋戚友msn的東西搬上來post...下一個'主角'會是誰呢...?

Friday, September 29, 2006

欣宜

某一天,我和oscar在msn聊天,我看到他的blog提到欣宜,提到看不起欣宜,我和他就開始了以下的談話.....



ckyue: ur blog...y u look down on 欣宜?



oscar: 不欣賞她啦



ckyue: y leh?

ckyue: u not her...

ckyue: u wun understand her feeling..



oscar: yes, i can't unerstant her feeling...



ckyue: been a luaghter, a fatty since young...

ckyue: maybe thats y she want to be a star

ckyue: to prove

ckyue: and a bit or more she already half leg in that field

ckyue: to continue to get in the half the other leg?

ckyue: or turn out?

ckyue: is a hard decision to her



oscar: 那可要看她的本事有多少...

oscar: 如果她真的認為那是正確的決擇

oscar: 她不用理會其他人的看法繼續努力

oscar: 有實力的人總會有人認同的

oscar: 沒有實力, 即使是twins都不會有人認同

oscar: 你知道欣宜在香港為什麼那麼不受歡迎嗎~?



ckyue: coz she fat?



oscar: 除了先入為主的主觀感...

oscar: 她減肥成功是有人認同的

oscar: 但她以為自己係外表很吸引的人...有好多負面新聞

oscar: 例如佢起外國"勾仔"...食煙...整容...

oscar: 她給香港人的印象是過份自信的人



ckyue: haiz



oscar: ?



ckyue: 一個 在社會 浮浮沉沉的 可憐女子

ckyue: 我覺得 她 從小 大眾怎樣看她造就 她現在這樣子



oscar: 我不能說社會沒有錯

因為大家都不喜歡很肥的人

oscar: 但她自己食到那麼肥

她自己也有責任吧?

oscar: 我不能相信可以食到那麼肥

除非只吃而不做運動

oscar: 自己一個極不健康的飲食習慣造成這樣的後果



ckyue: 你有想過自卑概心態係掂嘎 ?



oscar: 有

oscar: 我以前都曾經被人睇小我很細粒

oscar: 那時個個同學都比我高的

我中一到中三都是全級最細粒的

oscar: 也有給比自己高的同學取笑過

oscar: 那時怎麼會不覺得自卑?



ckyue: 當時欣宜係選擇自暴自棄概路

ckyue: 所以暴飲暴食

ckyue: 父母概觀念亦 有影響

ckyue: 這些是我角度看到的東西



oscar: 唔~~~~你說的也對

oscar: 所以我才說了"先入為主"的看法

如果沒有那些影響了大家的話

可能不會像現在普遍香港人對她的看法

oscar: 現在她要成功只能給成績人看

還有改變她過份自信的態度

oscar: 才能改變大部份香港人對她的印象

oscar: 我要出門先

oscar: 下次見 再傾過

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

wait me.....

i will be off from this blog this few days...to gambateh in my work...so...those who support my blog d friends...wait me! I'll be back....!

Sunday, September 17, 2006

活在自我世界的小女人

四某一天某一日得知一個相識一段時間的所謂朋友在我背後說了一些壞話...可能刀插到來才真正知痛...她無人不說,無人不講, 我應該知道我也免不了被講...但是當真正確實我中了招後,我真的無法接受!

我的穿著品味有改變都被你講?到處宣傳耶!難道我的穿著品味有阻礙你?傷害到你? 回想起來,你真的無人不講...我早該對你有防備心...

甚麼活動甚麼聚會甚麼人都不參,只活在自己的世界, 躲在自己的世界猜測別人的行動,別人的用意,別人的一切, 在背後指指點點, 有甚麼意見有甚麼不爽大可大大方方向有關人士提出, 為甚麼非要在別人背後批評?插刀? 可能你真的是活在自己世界的小女人..這名字真的很貼切耶!

人際並不十分醜陋,但因為有你,人際關係更顯醜陋...也因為有你,我又得知世界上有你這麼一種人...

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Changed job again...

So long not update my blog liao! hahahaha! Till a friend email to remind me! pai seh....Changed job liao mah... need time to 'uphad der....







Yes, I changed job....
AGAIN! This is the 4th job since i gratuate.




Hahahaha....Everytime i do different thing.. This time i doing editor, but is video editor, to editor news and programme to a 3G channel. Till now uphand half but still doing slow....See my friends got time to online and chat somemore....i know i really slow....Haiz! learning to be faster! Gambateh!








I always complain lou dao not bother me, not choi me, but i found out yuan lai he really care d.. my real parents got phone me to ask about my recent d thing lar...But lou dao not... thought he not bother me agian..Yuan lai he does! hahahaha! Shan Yuan told me lou dao ask him a few times about how is me with the new job....
Lou dao! me misunderstand u liao!! Thanks for caring!! I will gambateh d!







Lastly, Thanks to whom help me shift house, those who concern me, special thanks to lou dao who concern me so much, and to Shan yuan and Jin hui who help me sooooo much and sooooo patient to teach me about the new job....








Thanks for not kill me...

Thursday, August 17, 2006

為五斗米折腰


勒脖賣藝廣告

中國一名年僅12歲的中國河南男童,與弟弟在武漢街頭賣藝。他強忍痛苦,用細鋼筋緊緊勒住脖子表演,賺取微薄生活費。
看著這一張照片,可想而知一定是很通的了。世界每個角落的人都在為五斗米折腰…有者用血汗、有者用默默耕耘、有者用敲詐、有者攤開手……你又是用哪種呢?

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Animal

Look at the elephant in Thailand! So clever that can draw! Better than many people! Some paiting even can sell high price! I wonder elephant will be teacher to teach human to draw...Will it be?



Look at the pig! It so cute! Many people think pig is dirty and stupid and ugly and noisy. But this picture you found out can be cute too. It depends how you see and see from which site....

Monday, August 14, 2006

自我安慰

無論是住在/美麗的高山/或是躺臥在/陰暗的幽谷/當你抬起頭/你將會發現/主已為你我而預備///云上太陽/他總不看見/雖然小雨灑在臉上/云上太陽/他總不看見/阿哈/他不看見



Everything will be alright/tomorrow will be fine/天空依然燦爛/hey地球繼續轉



如果我/再也不/不能再更多的承受/痛苦之後/就要咬緊牙關/繼續漂流…



就算真的/整個世界/把我拋棄/而至少快樂傷心我自己決定/所以我說/就讓他去/我知道潮落之後一定有潮起/我不能忘記



衛冕者接受挑戰/難免也會失敗/人生雖然像一場比賽/還是要保持樂觀



下一站是不是天堂/就算失望不能絕望

Friday, August 11, 2006

旅遊書教溝女10對白 ten opening sentences to tackle girls

想去歐洲獵艷,卻未精通多國語言?蘇格蘭(Scotland)早前新出版一本旅遊會話書,教你十大「溝女必殺開場白」,用六種歐洲語言應該怎樣說,包括德文、法文、意大利文、葡萄牙文、西班牙語和捷克語,讓你「一書在手,勻歐s洲」!會話書每本只售3.5英鎊!美聯社

Recently Scotland publish a tour conversation book 'ten opening sentences to tackle girls', it have different lauguages, include German, French, Italian, Portuguese, Spanish and Czech and it just sold 3.50 pounds.




1.妳爸爸是不是神偷?看來他偷了天上的星星,放到妳雙眼。

Was your father a thief? Because he stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.



2.妳從天堂掉到凡間時,是否很痛?

Didn't it hurt when you fell from heaven?


3.你一定累壞了,因為妳整天都在我腦海中跑來跑去。

You must betired, because you've been running through my mind all day.



4.不好意思,我好像遺失了我的電話號碼,我可以借用妳的嗎?

Excuse me, I seem to have lost my phone number. Could I borrow yours?



5.妳相信一見鍾情嗎?還是我要在妳身邊走多一次?

Do you believe in love at first sight,or shall I walk by again?



6.請問妳會親吻陌生人嗎?不會?那麼讓我自我介紹。

Excuse me, do you kiss strangers? No? Well let me introduce myself.



7.妳整晚跑入我的夢,妳的腿累了嗎?

Do your legs hurt from running through my dreams all night?



8.我初到貴境,請問妳可否我怎樣去妳家?

I'm new in town.Could you give me directions to your apartment?



9.妳有地圖嗎?我不斷迷失在妳的雙眸。

Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes.



10.妳雙眸唯一沒告訴我的,是妳的芳名。

The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

LUCKY day at kampar

phiew! soooo long that i not go back tomy hometown liao! As what i will do, i go church at sunday morning. I miss the bed sooo much but it seems i already late to church, i have to rush to take bus. bla bla bla, finally i reach church. Luckily it just start worship. since i saw xuan xuan, i sat beside her.




Sudenly she told me :"i smell some shit"




"ya meh?"




I look to my shoe, yes! Its me! i step on a dog shit! Yellow and fresh somemore! Arghhhhh! What a lucky day! Lama-lama saja balik kampung sekali, pun so lucky step on dog shit! And i dont know where and when and how i step on it! And even my boyfriend pun laugh at me! "give me 4 number, i want to buy 4D" =.='''




When i go clean it up, i found out my jeans kena too! =.= GOOD! I dont have tissue somemore! I saw kar nyean pass by, yes! 'save star' come! i ask from him, after then i found out it was a stupid idea... After the sunday service, he told everybody people that i step on dog shit... NG KAR NYEAN!! WATER AND MOUNTAIN WILL MEET ONE DAY DER!HENG!




P/S : I promise myself from now on i must take tissue beside me!

給你的一封信

致你:



那天從金寶帶來我‘家族生意’的‘鎮山之寶’‘糯米池’回來,你不方便來拿,可能覺得老遠來拿糯米池覺得累吧…第二天就拿給同事吃,期待著像你的表情和反應會一樣出現在他們臉上…我失望了…發現有些是應酬我才吃,有些吃了就這樣而已…想念你一邊吃一邊露出誇張的表情…想念你激動兼滔滔不絕地贊我媽的糯米池…想念…




潔如筆

Monday, July 31, 2006

媽的謝潔如

故事要從我當年做心向太陽劇坊製作人‘媽的死人沈國明’的工作伙伴說起…



話說當時我常沒把工作做好,國明就會大聲叫“媽的謝潔如!死人謝潔如!你……”來做開頭。過後省略到“媽的死人謝潔如”,舞台監督詩茹等人都覺得很順口,偶爾也一齊‘叫’我媽的死人謝潔如’,我也活該地到處說,到最後連金慧都用‘媽的謝潔如’罵我了…… T.T 說這樣會比較爽wor…



到最後的最後,媽的謝潔如,你還是接受事實吧!誰叫我你的名字跟‘媽的’醬相襯…

Thursday, July 27, 2006

失敗者

摘自吳淡如《不急 我很趕》



每個人心裡都有一個虛擬的時鐘,每個人的時鐘分針秒針快慢都走得不一樣,也許「時間用詞」相同,「時間概念」可能大不相同。




一位某大公司的高階主管把她有趣的經驗告訴我。她剛升上主管時,負責帶領一群剛出校門不久的屬下,有天她跟一名下屬說:「這份企劃書很趕,請趕快完成。」



那人滿口答應。沒想到,催催促促,暗示加明示,過了3天,才把企劃書交上來。



「不是說很趕嗎?為什麼現在才交?」



「是啊,很趕哪,所以我3天就交出來了。」搞了半天,她懂了,原來那人來自純樸的鄉下,「很趕」對他來說就是3天。



「我本來以為自己的性子已經夠急了,沒想到在時間觀念上,和我的老闆也出現過溝通的誤差。」她說:「有一天早上,老闆把我叫到辦公室,拿了一疊報告給我,對我說,這不趕,請妳處理一下。沒想到,下午不到兩點,他就很著急的打電話來問我:『請問妳處理好了沒有?』」



她這才曉得,原來老闆口中的「不趕」,就是3個小時內要做好。不用說,如果老闆吩咐這件事「很趕」,半個小時內非報告進度不可。



同樣的名詞,在每個人腦海裡出現的定義不同。這讓我想到,有次要出差旅行時,我那好心的爸爸幫我買皮箱,問我:「女兒,要小皮箱、中皮箱和大皮箱?」我說,要中型的。沒想到我爸買回來的中皮箱,比我想像中大上兩倍,簡直是移民時才用得到的。對他來說,「中型的就是這麼大呀。」



後來,我那主管朋友每次交代事情,或從老闆或客戶手中承接案例,都會要求明確的時間指令:「幾小時還是幾天,要把這件事完成?」不再按照自己的時鐘評量「不急」和「很趕」。感情和友誼總要經過磨合期,才會了解彼此習慣,時間是很難磨合的因素之一。



很多人都有這樣的朋友:有些人總說他「快要到了」,結果,一等等了一個小時,甚至還等不到。有些人只要遲到5分鐘,一定打電話來報備和道歉,如果他遲到超過30分鐘,手機又打不通的話,朋友們一定歇斯底里的懷疑,他是出了車禍,還是被謀殺了?前者總是求原諒,後者才能得信任。



我總得不到任何人的信任。如金慧所說,強心針。不止對男朋友,而是對家人、朋友、好朋友、任何人。任何事情也是。很多時候兩頭不到岸,有時甚至三頭、四頭。不能怨誰,是自己的問題。

Tuesday, July 25, 2006

文字,又可以傳達多少感情?

文字可以傳達你想要表達的東西,卻充滿想像空間。
寫漏一個字,或感覺對不上,就會產生誤會。
你很多時候從文字感受不到對方當時的心情



還是那句,文字充滿想像空間。




所以我喜歡面對面。

Saturday, July 22, 2006

sweat pasar malam walk

That day i goThat day i go pasar malam buy some vege. When i on the way walking home, i bought newspaper. When i took $ from my jeans pocket, i found out my ATM card not in it! 1st thing pop out from my mind is......I DROP MY ATM CARD AT PASAR MALAM!!! (I have drop things record) No doubt, i rush back pasar malam to find my ATM card. Like a dog searching its food. Sambil find and sambil plan, I have to tell my mum n bf, then i have to tell Jin Hui n Shan Yuan,(so that i can brrow $ from them : p ) then search the contact number to phone Maybank, blah blah blah.... Walk till the end f pasar malam. Found nothing! GOOD! People sure took it already!



Sudenly 2nd thing pop out from my mind.......will it in the bag? No doubt (again) i search my bag.... Finally i found it =.='''



I think i too stress liao!!!!!!

Thursday, July 13, 2006

what is FRIEND?

One night i call to an old fren that lost contact for a long long long time. From his reaspon in the conversation, i found out i seems 'wan kat'. I doubt : what is friend? we played together, hanging out together,go school together, break time pun together, devolop 4th kampar Boys' Brigade senior section together, see this gang friends' face more than my family (1 week 7 days man!) and this happens for the secondary school life.



After the call i felt we no longer friends.. I look like idiot! 'wan kat'.... We as friends for so long n pass many things together, grown up together but in the end feel I far in this so call many years d friendship...then how about my other friendshio with other friends? Will get the same ending?



Something pop out in my mind : people say I have many friends, but maybe I JUST know many people, but dun have many friends...



I doubt : Do friends forever d friendship will happen to me?

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

是青春還是幼稚??

這篇文章是摘自臺灣的蘋果日報,吳淡如的小品





瑞美是小櫻的高中同學,兩人一直很要好。兩人的性格大相逕庭,瑞美很浪漫,而小櫻很務實。在小櫻的長子還念大學時,瑞美還在和一個念大學的男朋友交往。


小櫻常開玩笑說,老天爺不公平,她和瑞美一起出去逛街時,曾有人以為瑞美是她的女兒。在得天獨厚的環境中成長,生活優渥的瑞美,總是一副長不大的樣子,不只外表比同年齡的人年輕,心態也一直很青春。瑞美的男朋友阿信小她22歲。細看來,外貌上雖然還是有些差距,但她表示,溝通上沒什麼問題。她跟著小男友穿嘻哈裝,跟著小男友打電玩。比她小很多的男友,很多時候反而像哥哥一樣照顧著瑞美。小櫻本來很羨慕瑞美。


某天晚上,卻接到瑞美的告急電話,說小男友在她家揚言要自殺。


「因為他爸媽反對我們在一起!他看起來快瘋了。我陪著他,已經3天3夜沒吃飯、不睡覺了,他剛剛又打手機跟他爸媽咆哮,他說如果爸媽不答應,他們最好等著收屍!」


「妳怎麼不勸勸他!」


「我沒辦法呀。」瑞美無助的說。


小櫻第二天一早還得上班,但心想人命關天,大半夜從永和趕到陽明山小櫻家裡,沒想到門鈴按了老半天,瑞美開門時,卻是一副睡眼惺忪的樣子。


「他鬧累了,就睡了。」


瑞美說:「妳一向比我成熟,可不可以幫我一個忙?替我跟他爸媽說說,請他們接受我們的戀情?否則,我會陪他一起死……。」


小櫻又好氣又好笑。心中自忖:「我兒子也念大學了,如果有一天他愛上跟我年紀一樣大的女人,我也一定不可能不反對吧;如果他們因為我的反對,還幼稚的以死威脅,證明了那個女人年紀雖然大了,心理年齡還很幼稚,兒子跟她在一起,只會陷於險境,怎麼能讓我放心?」於是,她決心不插手。在外表上和體力、心情上,現代人都想要「青春不老」,這是好事,但表面可以青春,心態上卻不能維持幼稚,人生活了一半,如果還用18歲的智慧在處理感情挫敗,這就是越活越回去了。

good friends and friends

>>>Good Friends are hard to find.


>>>Good Friends are presents that last forever and that feel like gifts from above.


>>>Good friends are one in a million.


>>>Good friends are stories to share.


>>>Good friends know the path to your happiness, and they walk with you all the way there.


>>>Good friends are lives overlapping.

>>Good friends are laughter and joys.


>>>Good friends are emotions so deep that the trust keeps growing over the years.




>>>Good friends are hard to find.


>>>Good friends are easy to adore.


>>>Friends for today Friends for tomorrow.


>>>Friends through the good days, Friends through the sorrow. For the memories we make, The things we give, lend, And borrow...

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

i found my blog!! long time no see blog! haha!

walau! now juz i know i have a blog more thousand years ago....since ice age! hmm....i forgot abt it n even 4got the username n password! hahaha! at last i get in liao!



hahaha....the 1st blog i wrote said i kena write many thgs....but juz wrote 2 blog after that ord no write liao...throw here for ages! i ord dispromise!



ok, since i have a blog, so i gonna use it now( again? watever lah...) i will try to get sometime to write somethg d....although my english is very poor...but it is a way to improve my language wat.....once again.....hi blog! i'm back!